Sometimes, a step FORWARD is refusing to cry. Other times, it's telling someone a painful secret. A step forward may involve #counseling, #journaling or testifying in open court. The most important step is HONESTY. If you can't admit the truth, you're not really making progress. I have had to be honest with myself more times than I can count. Sometimes my truth is painful. But I own it and each time I claim another step forward on my journey. The same is true for you. CELEBRATE every step, every positive decision. Be proud of every moment you fight #depression and oppression. You're on your way! Don't despise where you are in your journey just keep MOVING. 😚 #answersplease#tiredofitall#abetterway#cantsleep
Really doesn't matter the reason, never hit a woman. There are several ways to discipline her, and make her feel sorry. Most times when this happens, you end up bringing out the beast in her. sometimes you're never really forgiven, you just have to live with the beast you created..There's this part of her she never knew she had until that happens.. I have watched some woman suffer the trauma of domestic violence and its really a sad sight..Not just women tho, even men. The difference is, the men would most times, be able to take charge and control the situation. But in the case of women, Its diffrent..1 out of 4 women, and 1 out of 7 men are victims.. @erinnix_pro, we support the movement against domestic violence.. DV goes beyond just physical fights all forms of abuse are involved..make a decision today to say NO to domestic violence.. #domesticviolence#erinnix#makeup#beauty#abuse#relationship#love#effectmakup..
What does the commitment of love mean for you? Is it being with the good and bad?Is it acceptance? Being with the whole? But what about when there is a destructive element? Growing up, were you taught to identify and get clear on your boundary and to truly understand what you define as bad? Were you encouraged to explore what specifically you will accept, and what is unacceptable? Were you encouraged to find your line, and not someone else's reference point? We all have different energy capacities and can tolerate different levels. Find yours and don't make it bad because someone else can endure more. I promise you, after living in this world over 50 years, what you endure does not disappear, it accumulates and at some point it will bite you on the bum. So accept what is the line of unacceptable for you. Remember enduring it does not mean that you should accept it. As humans we can endure many things, eg think concentration camps, but that doesn't mean we should endure. Enduring is not worthy of a medal. It does not mean you are .... whatever meaning you give it. Enduring is just tough and soul destroying. Enduring is not nothing, it has to go somewhere. It accumulates. Enduring is not the act of acceptance. Acceptance allows flow. If you are enduring, your system is saying it's not ok. Honour your body knowing. Respect you and don't push you, just the way you don't want others to push you.