Rihanna talks sex with Hollywood Life. Here's what she likes. 🙈 Rihanna. “I like to take charge, but I love to be submissive,” said Rihanna to Rolling Stone. “Being submissive in the bedroom is really fun. You get to be a little lady, to have somebody be macho and in charge of your sh*t. That’s sexy to me. I like to be spanked. Being tied up is fun. I like to keep it spontaneous. Sometimes whips and chains can be overly planned — you gotta stop, get the whip from the drawer downstairs … I’d rather have him use his hands.” Wow!